National news reports periodically proclaim that American life is lonelier than ever, and new books on the subject with titles like Bowling Alone generate considerable anxiety about the declining quality of Americans’ social ties. Still Connected challenges such concerns by asking a simple yet significant question: have Americans’ bonds with family and friends changed since the 1970s, and, if so, how? Noted sociologist Claude Fischer examines long-term trends in family ties and friendships and paints an insightful and ultimately reassuring portrait of Americans’ personal relationships.

Still Connected analyzes forty years of survey research to address whether and how Americans’ personal ties have changed—their involvement with relatives, the number of friends they have and their contacts with those friends, the amount of practical and emotional support they are able to count on, and how emotionally tied they feel to these relationships. The book shows that Americans today have fewer relatives than they did forty years ago and that formal gatherings have declined over the decades—at least partially as a result of later marriages and more women in the work force. Yet neither the overall quantity of personal relationships nor, more importantly, the quality of those relationships has diminished. Americans’ contact with relatives and friends, as well as their feelings of emotional connectedness, has changed relatively little since the 1970s. Although Americans are marrying later and single people feel lonely, few Americans report being socially isolated and the percentage who do has not really increased.

Fischer maintains that this constancy testifies to the value Americans place on family and friends and to their willingness to adapt to changing circumstances in ways that sustain their social connections. For example, children now often have schedules as busy as their parents. Yet today’s parents spend more quality time with their children than parents did forty years ago—although less in the form of organized home activities and more in the form of accompanying them to play dates or sports activities. And those family meals at home that seem to be disappearing? While survey research shows that families dine at home together less often, it also shows that they dine out together more often.

Americans are fascinated by the quality of their relationships with family and friends and whether these bonds fray or remain stable over time. With so many voices heralding the demise of personal relationships, it’s no wonder that confusion on this topic abounds. An engrossing and accessible social history, Still Connected brings a much-needed note of clarity to the discussion. Americans’ personal ties, this book assures us, remain strong.

CLAUDE S. FISCHER is professor of sociology at the University of California, Berkeley.

An in-depth look at the challenges undocumented immigrants face as they raise children in the U.S.

“Making It Work combines the precision of scientific experiments with the breadth of ethnographic methods to yield a penetrating picture of low-income mothers working at low-wage jobs while struggling to raise their children. Here we find the specific job-related factors, including work schedules and wage levels and changes that have impacts on both the mother’s and children’s well-being. The implications for public policy are enormous.”
—RON HASKINS, Brookings Institution

“Making It Work provides a much needed examination of the role that parents' employment plays in the developmental pathways of children in working poor households. It shows us that the working poor are a diverse group that experiences many different trajectories through the labor market, each of which imposes different pressures (and positive impacts) on kids. For parents who see upward mobility that is stable, the news is fundamentally good, particularly if child care is consistent and high quality. But parents who cannot provide a stable environment for their children see the opposite outcome: their kids are troubled in school and at home. No one dimension of work supports or family characteristics explains these outcomes. Instead, the authors show convincingly that ‘it takes a web’ of supports to pull children through in good shape, the kind of supports that the New Hope experiment provided in Milwaukee. This volume is an eye-opening examination of the nexus of work and child-rearing. The careful research design, the combination of survey data and ethnographic observation, and the judicious treatment of the research results combine to make it required reading for anyone who is serious about the long-term prospects for the children of the poor.”
—KATHERINE S. NEWMAN, Princeton University

“In the wake of welfare reform, many low-income mothers have gone to work. Making It Work provides numerous insights, based on both quantitative and qualitative evidence, into the circumstances under which work does or does not benefit low-income mothers and their children. It suggests that with the right supports—wage supplements, child care, and reliable transportation in particular—many of these mothers can be successful with positive benefits for their children as well. What is needed is a national commitment to provide the kind of supports that these mothers had as voluntary participants in a carefully evaluated demonstration program in Milwaukee during the 1990s.”
—ISABEL V. SAWHILL, Brookings Institution
 

There are now nearly four million children born in the United States who have undocumented immigrant parents. In the current debates around immigration reform, policymakers often view immigrants as an economic or labor market problem to be solved, but the issue has a very real human dimension. Immigrant parents without legal status are raising their citizen children under stressful work and financial conditions, with the constant threat of discovery and deportation that may narrow social contacts and limit participation in public programs that might benefit their children. Immigrants Raising Citizens offers a compelling description of the everyday experiences of these parents, their very young children, and the consequences these experiences have on their children’s development.

Immigrants Raising Citizens challenges conventional wisdom about undocumented immigrants, viewing them not as lawbreakers or victims, but as the parents of citizens whose adult productivity will be essential to the nation’s future. The book’s findings are based on data from a three-year study of 380 infants from Dominican, Mexican, Chinese, and African American families, which included in-depth interviews, in-home child assessments, and parent surveys. The book shows that undocumented parents share three sets of experiences that distinguish them from legal-status parents and may adversely influence their children’s development: avoidance of programs and authorities, isolated social networks, and poor work conditions. Fearing deportation, undocumented parents often avoid accessing valuable resources that could help their children’s development—such as access to public programs and agencies providing child care and food subsidies. At the same time, many of these parents are forced to interact with illegal entities such as smugglers or loan sharks out of financial necessity. Undocumented immigrants also tend to have fewer reliable social ties to assist with child care or share information on child-rearing. Compared to legal-status parents, undocumented parents experience significantly more exploitive work conditions, including long hours, inadequate pay and raises, few job benefits, and limited autonomy in job duties. These conditions can result in ongoing parental stress, economic hardship, and avoidance of center-based child care—which is directly correlated with early skill development in children. The result is poorly developed cognitive skills, recognizable in children as young as two years old, which can negatively impact their future school performance and, eventually, their job prospects.

Immigrants Raising Citizens has important implications for immigration policy, labor law enforcement, and the structure of community services for immigrant families. In addition to low income and educational levels, undocumented parents experience hardships due to their status that have potentially lifelong consequences for their children. With nothing less than the future contributions of these children at stake, the book presents a rigorous and sobering argument that the price for ignoring this reality may be too high to pay.

HIROKAZU YOSHIKAWA is professor of education in Harvard University’s Graduate School of Education.

Read an RSF interview with Yoshikawa here.

“Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race contributes mightily to our understanding of important issues that we ignored for too long, and still understand too little about. It is vital reading.”
—ADAM PERTMAN, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute 

“Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race by Mia Tuan and Jiannbin Lee Shiao gives critical insights into the unique experience of Korean adoptees. This book provides depth of detail and background, making it one of the most complete resources available on this subject. As a first-generation Korean adoptee, much of what is described by adoptees in this book resonates with me. Tuan and Shiao have done an excellent job of providing supporting information and research, but let the voices of the adoptees tell their own stories of navigating the nuances of being a Korean American adoptee. The result is a profoundly good read.”
—SUSAN SOON-KEUM COX, Holt International 

“Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race by Mia Tuan and Jiannbin Lee Shiao is a must read for scholars in the specialized field of transnational and transracial adoption studies and the larger field of ethnic and racial studies, as well as for all parties involved in international adoption practices, including birth and adoptive families, adoption agencies, and mental health service providers. Using in-depth interviews, Tuan and Shiao reveal the ways in which ethnicity, race, and culture overlap, intersect, and remain distinct in the everyday lives of adopted Korean Americans. They also expertly frame these experiences within H. David Kirk’s theory of shared fate, complemented by current sociological and psychological theory and research on adoption, ethnicity, and race. Equally, if not more, important, Tuan and Shiao make public the personal voices and narratives of adopted Korean American adults whose stories have long been appropriated by adoptive parents and adoption agencies.”
—RICHARD M. LEE, University of Minnesota 

“In Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race, Mia Tuan and Jiannbin Lee Shiao give us a fresh and compelling analysis of how race can shape social experience even in the seemingly mos integrated places. With rich new interview material on Korean adoptees—the single largest category of foreign-born adoptees in the United States—Tuan and Shiao show how a racialized social order penetrates even the most intimate realms of identity and family. Rather than transracial adoption proving the irrelevance of race today, they show that it creates new and complex terrain on which matters of ethnic identity and socially imposed racial boundaries and hierarchies get renegotiated. This book makes a major contribution and is a must read for anyone interested in transracial adoption or the larger contemporary dynamics of race.”
—LAWRENCE D. BOBO, Harvard University

Transnational adoption was once a rarity in the United States, but Americans have been choosing to adopt children from abroad with increasing frequency since the mid-twentieth century. Korean adoptees make up the largest share of international adoptions—25 percent of all children adopted from outside the United States—but they remain understudied among Asian American groups. What kind of identities do adoptees develop as members of American families and in a cultural climate that often views them as foreigners? Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race is the only study of this unique population to collect in-depth interviews with a multigenerational, random sample of adult Korean adoptees. The book examines how Korean adoptees form their social identities and compares them to native-born Asian Americans who are not adopted.

How do American stereotypes influence the ways Korean adoptees identify themselves? Does the need to explore a Korean cultural identity—or the absence of this need—shift according to life stage or circumstance? In Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race, sixty-one adult Korean adoptees—representing different genders, social classes, and communities—reflect on early childhood, young adulthood, their current lives, and how they experience others’ perceptions of them. The authors find that most adoptees do not identify themselves strongly in ethnic terms, although they will at times identify as Korean or Asian American in order to deflect questions from outsiders about their cultural backgrounds. Indeed, Korean adoptees are far less likely than their non-adopted Asian American peers to explore their ethnic backgrounds by joining ethnic organizations or social networks. Adoptees who do not explore their ethnic identity early in life are less likely ever to do so—citing such causes as general aversion, lack of opportunity, or the personal insignificance of race, ethnicity, and adoption in their lives. Nonetheless, the choice of many adoptees not to identify as Korean or Asian American does not diminish the salience of racial stereotypes in their lives. Korean adoptees must continually navigate society’s assumptions about Asian Americans regardless of whether they chose to identify ethnically.

Choosing Ethnicity, Negotiating Race is a crucial examination of this little-studied American population and will make informative reading for adoptive families, adoption agencies, and policymakers. The authors demonstrate that while race is a social construct, its influence on daily life is real. This book provides an insightful analysis of how potent this influence can be—for transnational adoptees and all Americans.

MIA TUAN is professor of education studies, director of the Center on Diversity and Community, and associate dean of the graduate school at the University of Oregon.

JIANNBIN LEE SHIAO is associate professor of sociology at the University of Oregon.